I have often had this conversation with my girlfriends over coffee, as we do, what cheating could be defined as.. not so much in the tangible sense, but in the mindset .. for instance.. say ya man regularly spanks the monkeh to ‘visual stimuli’ that includes nothing of their partner ..and he says summat like.. ‘blokes are visual.. seeing that sort of stuff gets us off.. but dun worry, just cos i do it, dun mean i love you any less’ ..

well.. with most women.. all of which I’ve spoken about it with.. have said its the connection that gets them off.. the connection being that they are the other person’s ‘world’ for however brief the moment.. they know they are it..the intensity and mutual desire is well apparent..

so it begs to be questioned.. if a woman was regularly doing the deed with someone other than their partner, no one special, work colleague, friend etc just impulsive rampant romping just cos they desired the connection.. could they rebuttal with ‘don’t worry baby.. its a connection thing.. dun mean i love you any less’ ..

would men accept it like we’re meant to accept their need to seek visual stimuli?

*curiously ponders*